Thoughts from the Pot: Death by Honeymoon

“Thoughts from the Pot” are the random musings of a husband. The thoughts and opinions presented below are not necessarily those of the host of this blog. Thank you for your understanding. Some people hate fish. I am not one of those people. It’s in my genes; I was bred into a life of fish … Continue reading Thoughts from the Pot: Death by Honeymoon


Growing up I heard stories from different family members about how they felt on their wedding day. Most were unsettled about the step before them. You could say this was hindsight because these stories were told to me after separation and divorce, but it weighed heavily on my mind as my wedding date neared. I … Continue reading {vow}

The Proposal

He was leaving. Over the summer we'd talked about getting married; we'd even found the ring. Yet here we were, two weeks until he was set to return to college, and he said he couldn't propose before he left. I had battled with God for a month about returning to school; my grandma's battle with … Continue reading The Proposal

Planning Not to Plan

This week Josh and I celebrate our 10 year anniversary. It's made me slightly nostalgic. I appreciate you humoring me as I share a few stories from the past decade here over the next few days. Everyone thought we should get married. After two years of dating, our future plans were constantly in question. We … Continue reading Planning Not to Plan