My Marriage Was a Mistake

Every marriage hits rough patches. In those moments, there is a tendency to look back on events that seem to be a fork in the road. In our ten years of marriage, I have one memory that haunts me; a moment in time that I recall when the bumps seems more jolting than normal. Sitting … Continue reading My Marriage Was a Mistake

Fear, Perfectionism & Love

Today the Faith Community over at Bonnie's place are jamming about Perfectionism. I encourage you to take a minute today to check out what others are sharing there! For me, perfectionism comes down to fear. My desire to be a perfect wife is based in my fear that if I am not everything Josh needs … Continue reading Fear, Perfectionism & Love

I don’t want to be a hypocrite

This is the third post in a series on guilt. If you are just joining in, here's Part 1 and Part 2. :: Here's the thing, I am struggling through this right now. In fact, most of what I right about here are the things I am wrestling with. This place is where I have chosen … Continue reading I don’t want to be a hypocrite


There is a certain tight rope quality to being involved in social media. You want to be genuine, transparent, and real without falling into the TMI category. Those people who present a highly edited version of themselves are what gives online interactions a bad name, but so do the ones who provide the intimate details of … Continue reading {balance}